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Here is a print out for the first page of Hop on Life to give you an impression what you can expect. Self-esteem is not the same as being self-centered, self-absorbed, or selfish. Self-esteem is also not complacency or overconfidence, both of which can set us up for failure. Self-esteem rests upon three important factors, or building blocks. Self-Esteem Growth Unconditional Worth
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Many myths and misunderstandings surround self-esteem. So let's begin by clearly understanding where we are going in this guide.
Self-esteem is a realistic,
appreciative opinion
of oneself.
Realistic means we are dealing in the truth, being accurately and honestly aware of our strengths, weaknesses, and everything in between.
Appreciative, however, suggests that we have good feelings overall about the person we see.
Think of a friend who knows you well and cherishes you, recognizing that there is more to you than your faults, and you'll get a sense of what appreciative means.
Wholesome self-esteem is the conviction that one is as worthwhile as anyone else, but not more so.
On one hand, we feel a quiet gladness to be who we are and a sense of dignity that comes from realizing that we share what all humans possess—intrinsic worth.
On the other hand, those with self-esteem remain humble, realizing that everyone has much to learn and that we are all really in the same boat.
There is no need to be arrogant or boastful, no need to think that we are more worthwhile as a person than others or more skilled or important than we really are.
One who feels whole and secure in him- or herself is freer to be selfless.
Can a criminal have high self-esteem?
I suppose it is theoretically possible. However, a recent study found that aggressive, rebellious children were more likely to have been bullied; feel rejected, unhappy, and unloved; and have a poor self-image than less aggressive children.
So it is important to distinguish the outer appearance of confidence from the quiet, steady, inner gladness that characterizes self-esteem.
Indeed, self-esteem is a strong motivator to work hard.
And self-esteem is not just important for people in Western cultures; studies have shown that self-esteem is related to the mental health and happiness of adults in diverse cultures, including Asian and Middle Eastern societies
The first two blocks, unconditional worth and unconditional love comprise the secure foundation for the third building block, growth.
Generally, growth proceeds more effectively once the first two blocks are securely in place.
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